Of course.

i thought i'd come to college and slut it up though. it is college after all.

then i realized that the girls at cmu are just...

just...

not very good.

you'll see when you visit. pittburgh's girls in general aren't bad...but cmu's like a fucking bubble of ugly.

Yeah, but you don't want to slut it up. I don't know about you, but I'd kill to be in a REAL relationship for once...

i've been single for over a year. it got fun for maybe 7-8 months, then it sucked, then i started modelling and it got fun again...but now i just want to settle down with someone who makes me truly happy.

i think you and mark are looking like a good couple today

hey -chris-, instead of saying "you've posted over 200 times in the last 24 hours" in attempts to get me to shut up, you could instead try the following, which would probably work a lot better:

he told me he loved me.

single again.
kinda stoked.

how long have you two been together?

officially: over a month.

we've known each other for three years.

ehhh...last time i told a girl i loved her i had known her for a week. i dunno. there's a difference between being "in love" and "loving" someone. i dunno. there's a possibility i said it to have sex with her. but i really actually thought it was genuine.

he's not the kind of guy to just say it to say it. and he didnt say it to get laid, cause we've already had sex. so yeah.
i dunno, it's just kind ascarey.

in all my experience as soon as "love" comes up, things go downhill soon after.

Hahahahahhaha, classic..
But yeah, I've made that mistake. I told a girl I loved her and she blew up about it. I believe, It was TrickedThePigs sister.

she didn't blow up. she said she loved me back.

Oh, I didn't read it all. My bad.
I've said it a couple of times, and two times I've gotten it back, but there was just that one time.

I'm with you. I actually don't hate you outside of the majority of your posts in the Status thread, haha. I'm still a firm believer in waiting it out if someone's in a relationship because, well actually, let's not get into that.

i love you savannah.

and just because i said that, it must be true.

Word up. Duder seems super solid beyond homewreckage.

Taylor, do you mind me asking what your longest relationship was?

Complete opposite for me. From what I've seen, it seems like after couples have sex, it goes downhill. Not when the say "I love you". I tell my girlfriend I love her all the time, but I know for a fact I'm not "in love" with her. Don't get to scared though, it's not biggie. Chicks always seem to freak out about that stuff.

just the whole "love" in general is scarey to me. two guys before him have told me.
the first just said it to take my virginity, ha, and it worked. and every time he fucked me over he would say "i love you" and i would forgive him. i know that was my own stupidity for forgiving him time after time.
so i put up a wall.
than over a year ago i met a guy that lived 5 hours away. we did fall in love, i know that. but it didnt work out.

and my boyfriend now is amazing. i know he says what he means. we were friends for three years, so i know how he's like and everything.
he didnt want to be in a relationship til he got his shit together.
and he does now.
he's got a great head on his shoulders, and is a total sweetheart. all my friends love him and so does my family.

i think that's the part that scares me the most.

Well, I do understand the "I love you" just to get into your pants, I've seen that happen too. Hah. Well, considering you guys have only been together for a month or so, I doubt he means he is "in love with you". He says he loves you because he cares about you a lot and likes being with you, that's all. Unless he turns out to be a dick and just wants to get into your pants, then scratch my whole theory.

he's already been in my pants.
hahaha.

yeah, im sure he's not "in love".
it was hard getting used to us being together, cause when we were friends i'd tell him i loved him, like whenever we got off the phone or something. i stopped when we became official, cause that's just wierd.

i dunno. we'll see what happens.

oh i'm totally with sav on this one. two guys have told me they love me (i'm only freakin' 18!!)- one of them i was with for 11 months, one for about... 2. 11-monther lasted a lot longer than it should've 'cause he was a total dick, and the 2-monther was sweet but.. far TOO sweet. and when he'd say he loves me i'd just be all "uh.. k" 'cause it was just weird. something about it just kinda creeps me out.
i've never seen a relationship be ruined by sex. especially seeing as i'm 3 months in with a guy i slept with early on and who hasn't said he loves me and everything's all good! so in my experience, it's "love" that ruins it.

but, sav, maybe with this it's scary because you could be on the verge of something really big. if you've known the guy for 3 years prior and you know him inside and out, it's more likely that you've both had an attraction to one-another for a while and that's what he's voicing.

Fuck this thread.

i love you!

i think a lot of people SAY "i love you" without seriously meaning it
maybe this goes along with the difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone.

i also have been seeing firsthand exactly HOW tricky love is.

i've never thought that someone could have any type of feelings for another person while in love with someone else, but i sort of think i'm starting to prove myself wrong. and it's an odd situation for sure.

Do you mean that? Or are you just trying to get in my pants?

like it's that hard jon.



fuck i think i just insulted myself but whatever i'm sticking to it.

Same can be said for you.

HA!

I don't know what I should do. Stop waiting around for this girl to make up her mind if she wants to try and have a relationship after hooking up for about 8 weeks straight. Or just go after this cute girl and just see what happens.

Tell the bitch to make up her mind.
Abuse her, then she'll go out with you because chicks like guys that treat them like shit, so she'll think you aren't a decent guy, then when you start dating, be all nice and she wont have anything to complain about.

That actually is the thing to do. Most girls complain about how they can't find good guys, yet when they do and they come face to face with choosing an asshole and a gentlemen, they'll pick the asshole.

So be an asshole, chase the cute girl but also keep the other chick on the side. Then she'll hate you, therefore she'll want you bad.

oh definately not, i made my mistake (he fooled me by starting off nice..) and now i have a total sweetheart, but he's the good medium of nice, because he isn't soppy but he's not a complete abusive idiot


and jon, i think we all know the answer to that one!

Clare is the exception that proves the rule.

Hmmmm. Anyone else want to shed light on what I should do?

I've liked guys in the past who actually were real jerks. Even though they might look attractive, I still tell myself that I don't want to be with a jerk that would treat our relationship like trash so I end up not liking them.

Yeah, also an exception. If only all women shared the same thought train as you and clare.

Well, I'm not really sure.
But I win either way.... so yay!

Believe it or not, but some girls actually find jerks to be complete turn-offs. So there is hope. Don't be impatient.

When you get burned by a real asshole once (or for some girls it takes a couple times) you really appreciate the good guys. The guy I'm dating now is possibly the sweetest guy I've ever dated (but not in an annoying or clingy way).

If after 8 weeks she still isn't sure, my suggestion is to go for the other girl. (And then of course the first girl is going to want you since you're not giving her all your attention anymore).

dude you have no idea

Hear, hear!

Welp, understand how frusterating that can be for the nice guys.

Lot's of girls like assholes and nice guys in general are attracted to girls that like assholes for numerous reasons. Sucks. It's a whack ass cycle, but if it wasn't that way then it wouldn't be interesting, now would it?

I'm a believer that by the time people are mature enough to know what they really want, things pan out. So I'm not worried...

That's 'cause you're thirty, overweight, and alone, ya fat shit. Get a damn job.

Edit: I think I'll have some good material to post in here pretty soon.

hey its just as frustrating for those of us girls who figured it out already but we have to listen to our not-as-bright girlfriends bitch about how all men are assholes everytime she falls for the same shit...over and over and over... yeaaaah that is rather frustrating.

take a risk. fuck hookups. if you like the girl, then don't settle for anything less. no one fucking deserves to be used.





eek. tonight's events lead me to say one thing.

sorry guys.

during the walk home, i realized i didn't want to be a fucking homewrecker. so i don't know what i'm going to do...but...ehh...

let's just say that tonight surpassed any and all expectations i had. details after the inevitable talk.

Conclusion: I don't care. Whatever happens, happens.

Well we as guys often get ourselves into positions where we have to listen to our not as bright friends who happen to be girls bitch about it too. But in many of those cases, we're extremely attracted to them and would love to be with them, yet we know it can never happen, or at least not for a while due to their poor ability to "figure it out." Or in worse cases, we think it can happen so we continue to lie to ourselves until we drive ourselves crazy.

I think that's a bit worse than just having to listen to friends bitch...