Jojo, Clare definitely doesn't speak for everyone.

Thanks buddy. You know how to sweep 'em off their feet.



Ms. Traci, at 21, marriage isn't even a thought right now. It's a very open college relationship and when I graduate college and have a secure and steady income, I'll put the decision on the table. I can still flirt and be touchy with other girls, but at the end of the night, I'm going back home to one woman.

Unless, it's threesome night.

in all honesty has that happened

don't pretend like you didn't come to a threesome night dude

but seriously, i'm not one to brag or bloat my personal life, and especially on a message board. sorry buddy.

That's a no.

but a graceful one.

someone be my e-girlfriend/boyfriend

i'm sure andre's just the right level of creepy.

Ok, so I need some serious advice here. My girlfriend and I have been dating for over a year now. So recently, she went to the school dance with 3 of her girlfriends. Nothing went on at the dance, but I got home that night and I texted her and I asked what she was doing. She told me she was helping people clean up the dance, so I said alright cool and went to sleep. So tonight I went onto her myspace for whatever reason and I see this message with this guy from our school. I called her, asked her what it was about, and she straight up lied to me. She went to this guys house with her friends (who are my friends too) and then went home. Then later that night, they snuck out and went back and stayed late and she drank a little and whatever. I don't know what to do right now. I'm just really hurt and betrayed, and I'm just way to pissed off to know right now if i can ever trust her again. Advice?

school dance drama. if you trust her n she hasn't givin you reason not to then dont sweat it man

but if shes bangin n lies alot then ..

I'm guessing you're still in high school? Or are you a college man with a girl still in high school?

Nonetheless, it's a little shady that she told you one thing and did the other. Then again, I don't know you or your girlfriend at all and I don't know her personality so I have no idea if it's in her nature to, for example, just do something spontaneously.

Trust is one of the most important characteristics in a relationship so obviously, you want to get this sorted right away. Maybe you could bring it up to her the next morning and be like, "hey babe, I was on your page, about to post a loving message when I noticed the message below mine" and just take it from there. If she lies again, then ditch her ho ass and pick up chicks using Steve's patended line.

with a little rewording of the last sentence, i agree with jojo. if it was nothing shady, there really shouldn't be any point in saying "oh i'm just cleaning up after the dance..". unless she did do that, and then after went to whoever's house, because if you'd gone to bed and said you were going to sleep then maybe she just didn't see any importance in texting you later saying oh i'm going to so-and-so's house now.

Not to really call out Xander, since we're friends. But for someone who really "doesn't want to get hurt" Allie is making a poor choice. Just saying that Xander is known for his lack of ability to stay in relationship that doesn't have sex everyday

wow, so i feel like a douchebag saying this...but when girls have snuck out to my place in the past (single or not, fucking homewrecker)...the majority of the time, esp if there was alcohol involved, we've hooked up.

but jojo's totally right, we don't know how your girl is. another one of my exes (of sorts, long story) totally and utterly flirted this guy up to the point where i was almost jealous, then she totally walked away when he got her booze. so your lady could just be doing that.

just NEVER ASSUME, because, one, that causes too much fucking emotional stress and, two, if you assume shit and it didn't happen, the lady will just be more angry.

To me it seems pretty shady. Was it a party that she went to or was it just a few guys and a few girls drinking? If it was the latter then I would definitely be suspicious. Of course, there is always that friend that just wants her to come along because the friend wants to hook up with one of the guys or something like that, but she should have been open with you and let you know what she was doing.

I wouldn't stop trusting her or feel betrayed but I might be a little more wary about what she is doing when she is not around you. No stalking though!

Lately I've been the player69 around here. Everyone has their weeks where all the chicks want it. This one has def been mine.

3 weeks exactly

haha for anyone that browses the boards, they'll see "honeymoon" and then "3 weeks" and think you're moving a bit quickly

8 month anniversary for myself and my boy. which is very good for me, considering last time i got to this i fucking hated the prick but couldn't get myself out of it

Okay, this might be a terrible thing to compare it to... but just hear me out:
Sometimes I do completely innocent things with my friends, like I'll want to take a night walk on Main Street just to walk at night, but I tell my mother I'm doing something else like going to Borders because she'll think what I'm really doing is suspicious and that I'm lying (Because what teenager just wants to go on a walk?).

So maybe what she was doing was telling you a lie, because the truth sounded shady and she didn't think you'd believe her? If that's not the case, then I don't know wtf is going on, and it does indeed sound shady.

I get what you're saying but that's not the type of relationship you should have with a significant other. If you have to bend the truth with your lover just because you think they'll think something is happening when it really isn't, even if it truly really isn't, there are obviously trust issues there. I wouldn't want my girlfriend to have to lie to me to emotionally protect me. That's shitty.

But yeah. Don't let it blow over. Let her know it upset you and you want to have an honest relationship with her. Don't be a dick, but be assertive...

For all the singles out there wanting to hook up...

Craig's List

i actually went through there because i'm so bored.

i'd recommend not to do it. there was a fat albino in a corset with pit hair.

Start of last year i was going for this girl who had a boyfriend, i didn't care because the boyfriend was a major tool.

Now i'm going out with this girl, and all these dudes keep going after her, i was a dick last year, haha.

Thankfully i've got one of the most trustworthy girlfriends in the world. I know nothing will happen. But man, if my girlfriend didn't hate violence so much, i'd flip out at the guys that try to buy her drinks and get her number and stuff and harm them in some way.

i got a new girl who i really really liked after i broke up with that daemon for 2 and a half years. i say liked because i really had such a huge crush on her and was so into her, but when after a week of going out, i felt like i had some doubts. she is all over me and is obsessed, so i got really upset and afraid that i was going to hurt her.

thank god for tonight, though. i dunno why, but any doubt in my mind with me and her is completely gone. im just as into her as she is with me. i just wish she would give me some room for myself when it comes to hanging out. that and i wish she didnt live 45 minutes away.

i wanna meet a nice, attractive, jewish girl. if thats you, call me.

i am not nice, attractice, jewish or female but lets date

you ever notice how when you dream about someone you think about them for the next day?

remember that homewrecking girl? last night i had this fucked up dream involving her and her boyfriend, i don't really remember a lot about it, i just remember apologizing to her boyfriend and him like hugging me and crying, because the guy was a fucking pussy.

either way, i can't really get her off my mind right now. not to mention that i'll probably never see her again.

i can handle that response. what year are you? 08?

James, are you saying that you're not into that? Sounds kind of hot... sort of. Not really.

JEN

you're right. albiho's are where it's at.

supposed to, but i kind of forced myself into the 5 year program.

haha, whoopsies. but meh, whatever, i don't exactly know what i want to do yet so another year would give me time to develop that idea (not to mention college rules), but at the same time, college isn't exactly cheap.

i really hate being single, i always say this.
and i know what they say "if you dont look for a relationship, one will fall into your lap."
damn me for being so impatient.
and i feel like i know all the guys here in this town that id be a little bit attractive to.
blah.

Dude, are you going to The Chariot/Misery Signals show?

when?

probably not. i'm out of here on the 18th.

Well, that's gay. I was gonna say we'd have a blast and talk to some chicks. (Yeah, let the flames begin, fags.)

I talk to chicks all the time, my life is such a blast 24/7

wait I can do better.

they have to be taken for it to be a blast for james?

Great timing Lori!

And by having a blast, I meant see Misery Signals. What could be more fun?

I have no idea Mark, maybe seeing a band that's actually good and not generic run of the mill metalcore?
Yeah probably that.

Now this, this is one of them occasions where the homies not doin it right,
I mean he found him a hoe that he like,
But you can't make a hoe a housewife.
And when it all boils down you gonna find in the end,
a bitch is a bitch but a Dogg is a man's best friend.
So what you found you a hoe that you like,
But you can't make a hoe a housewife.

Sounds like my cup of tea.

based on the girl (my prom date) i posted in the lovers picture thread:

her and i were together before i dated that other girl for 2 years.
now we're getting really close again, hanging out a lot and going out a lot she came over and made me soup the other day when my dry socket was hurting. supposedly she likes me, but i'm not sure if it's mutual. i think shes a great girl but i cant tell if i want to get serious with her. we flirt a lot but last time we were, an item (..i guess?), things got weird afterward and i was pretty hurt. i dont know if i wanna go back to that i suppose.
i guess we'll see what happens as time unfolds.

give it a shot bro, youll regret not giving it a shot trust me.

keep in mind that a lot of girls are just flirty by nature, and if it got awkward before it will probably get awkward again....always depends on the people though

Also keep in mind that you are (a senior, right?) going off to college and unless you're going to the same school, you have to ask yourself if you want to commit to the long distance aspect of the relationship.

long distance fails. Someone prove me wrong.

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only cuz i haven't met them yet.

In 18 days I will be mizzarried. It is hard for me to believe, haha.