namernj
Jun 5 2007, 01:48 PM
the girl i dated for a couple of years. we rarely ever fought which means we never had makeup sex.
knock that bitch out.
mike.
Jun 5 2007, 01:49 PM
damnit.
mark.
Jun 5 2007, 01:50 PM
Well, not even sex wise. I just mean it's good to have the occassional fight. Sometimes if things seem too good to be true, it just might be.
Mortal Soldier
Jun 5 2007, 01:52 PM
QUOTE(mark. @ Jun 5 2007, 01:50 PM) [snapback]554652[/snapback]
Well, not even sex wise. I just mean it's good to have the occassional fight. Sometimes if things seem too good to be true, it just might be.
Turns out she was really just a broom, after all.
SPACE GHOST
Jun 5 2007, 03:33 PM
QUOTE(bobby mcd @ Jun 4 2007, 08:56 PM) [snapback]554169[/snapback]
HA! 5 minutes of sex and 1 hour 55 minutes of using the inhaler, Ricky.
You sound like you speak from personal experience there, bobbo.
dingo
Jun 7 2007, 05:32 AM
I'm 17.
We keep getting closer but whatever, it'll probably happen soon and end soon, hopefully it wont happen.
beloved_kid
Jun 7 2007, 08:56 AM
fights are what make relationships interesting. If you cant handle a large argument then its a waste of time anyway, and as said before, who doesnt love makeup sex?
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 09:09 AM
So, the girl I'm talking to flat out told me she's still getting over her ex and wants to take things very slow, which I have no problem with. I'm really not trying to screw this up, and I know that if we rush things, it'll just end up failing. So, we're in the "really good friends" stage.
FUBAR
Jun 7 2007, 09:10 AM
That's a realllllly tricky stage.
Good luck.
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 09:12 AM
Yeah, you're not kidding. She's having a tough time, since the guy cheated on her a lot and he keeps calling and texting her, saying he loves her and wants to see her. It's a really fucked up situation, and I'm trying my best to be there for her as a friend instead of someone who wants to be with her. She knows we both want to be together, but I know she just wants me to prove that I can be patient and a friend first, boyfriend second.
beloved_kid
Jun 7 2007, 09:27 AM
stab her ex in his fingers so he cant text anymore
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 09:34 AM
I'd love to. The dude had his chance and fucked up more than once... So he needs to lay off.
FUBAR
Jun 7 2007, 09:35 AM
Suggest that she changes her number.
I mean, if she really wants to get over him, she needs to find ways to cut off contact.
shyne po
Jun 7 2007, 09:37 AM
maybe she just likes attention from both of you..
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 09:50 AM
Nah dude. She's not like that. It's the fact that her ex just won't leave it alone. She never even responds to the texts and hangs up on him every time. He's a big time druggie, and I think he's the one that got her into a lot of the drugs she did a while back.
shyne po
Jun 7 2007, 09:54 AM
QUOTE(mark. @ Jun 7 2007, 01:09 PM) [snapback]555879[/snapback]
So, the girl I'm talking to flat out told me she's still getting over her ex
just dont let yourself get played out. girls with baggage are spineless at times
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 09:56 AM
Well, I look at it this way. If she wanted to be with him, she wouldn't be talking to me on a relationship level, and would already be with him. She knows she can't trust him and probably isn't going to give him that chance again.
Robert Hamburger
Jun 7 2007, 10:09 AM
how many other dudes is she fucking on the side
clareface
Jun 7 2007, 10:12 AM
QUOTE(FUBAR @ Jun 7 2007, 04:35 PM) [snapback]555889[/snapback]
Suggest that she changes her number.
I mean, if she really wants to get over him, she needs to find ways to cut off contact.
i'm with jon on this- the best way to get over someone is to lose all contact with them.
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 10:19 AM
QUOTE(chuck taylor @ Jun 7 2007, 02:09 PM) [snapback]555901[/snapback]
how many other dudes is she fucking on the side
0? I think she's a virgin too. And if she isn't, then her ex is the only guy she's ever slept with.
Not like any of that matters.
I appreciate the advice everyone. But I think she and I are going to be just fine.
Lori
Jun 7 2007, 10:58 AM
I respectfully disagree.
You'll never go from friend to boyfriend.
If she really wanted to be with you, she wouldn't give you that "take it slow" and "getting over my ex" bullcrap.
You don't have to believe me, you can argue all you want, but mark my words.
(but I am on your side, I don't WANT to be right.)
Bobby
Jun 7 2007, 10:59 AM
Thats how I do it, Lori. Works for me.
Edit: Actually, it never works if you really wanna be "boyfriend and girlfriend" but I definitely have those "friends with benifits" or whatever.
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 11:03 AM
I just have a good feeling about this. We're not really "friends" per say, it's more of a pre-commitment thing. She really wants me to be there for her the whole time, so when she's ready we'll be together. I know it never really works, but I have a great feeling about this.
Lori
Jun 7 2007, 11:42 AM
Ok, this pre-commitment thing, even if it's childish, makes a lot more sense.
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 12:10 PM
It does. And while I would much rather just start dating and take things slow... I just want her to be comfortable, and it would be a lot easier then jumping into dating, and then have something happen. It would make it a lot easier on me.
beloved_kid
Jun 7 2007, 12:10 PM
it is possible to go from good friends to a couple, its happened to me and to a lot of my friends. Maybe the girl is just really caring in regards to mark and doesn't want to completely commit to him while she cant focus completely on a relationship.
lets use a little ration here, folks
Lori
Jun 7 2007, 12:31 PM
QUOTE(beloved_kid @ Jun 7 2007, 10:10 PM) [snapback]555973[/snapback]
lets use a little ration here, folks
we're talking about a girl here.
FUBAR
Jun 7 2007, 12:35 PM
Not only a girl, a girl he wants a relationship with. Rational thinking is pretty much illegal in this situation.
xXx Tears of a Phoenix xXx
Jun 7 2007, 12:42 PM
it doesn't matter mark's got AIDS.
The Platypus
Jun 7 2007, 01:22 PM
It's possible to go from friends to more. I am proof. I was friends with my wife for about 6 months and then we became booty calls for awhile and then one day we were like, hey, why don't we start something more.
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 03:43 PM
See, she says she wants to take things slow, and now she wants to come on vacation with me in September and said this:
"I think that i would maybe like to come. It'll be the best thing in the world to wake up next to you especially in a beautiful place"
I'm confused.
SPACE GHOST
Jun 7 2007, 03:46 PM
So. Yeah, life's alright.
ben!!!!!
Jun 7 2007, 03:54 PM
Your avatar is alright.....
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 04:00 PM
Boi-oi-oi-oi-oing!
beloved_kid
Jun 7 2007, 05:01 PM
i dont see what is confusing about that mark, she wants to fuck you and wake up in the morning beside of you
Lori
Jun 7 2007, 05:06 PM
Do it, Mark.
Note
Jun 7 2007, 05:06 PM
QUOTE(mark. @ Jun 7 2007, 11:03 AM) [snapback]555942[/snapback]
I just have a good feeling about this. We're not really "friends" per say, it's more of a pre-commitment thing. She really wants me to be there for her the whole time, so when she's ready we'll be together. I know it never really works, but I have a great feeling about this.
ya I just went through something like that. alls i did was help the chick and then she got over it by turning into a slut and stopped talking to me almost completly. So i stole some of her sun glasses from her to piss her off. It worked pretty good.
Good luck
SPACE GHOST
Jun 7 2007, 05:24 PM
Mark, do it, take one for the team, man. Speaking of fucking, bought some condoms today, MYSELF.
mark.
Jun 7 2007, 05:39 PM
I'm just confused. She says she doesn't want a boyfriend RIGHT NOW, but then she's saying she wants to fall asleep and wake up next to me. Sexually or not, she's mad confusing. But that doesn't mean I'm not going to take her up on it when we go.
beloved_kid
Jun 7 2007, 05:39 PM
girls are much worse about stealing shit than guys and not giving them back
im still missing about 5 shirts, 3 pairs of soccer shorts, and some comfy ass sweatpants/sleep pants from a girl that i havent been dating for a year
anytime i ask she says she doesnt know where they are and that she doesnt have them. I actually found a pair of my shorts in her car the first time I saw her fall semester (she drove to waffle house)....it was on top of everything, in plain view, screaming for me to take them back
Mortal Soldier
Jun 7 2007, 06:21 PM
QUOTE(beloved_kid @ Jun 7 2007, 05:39 PM) [snapback]556228[/snapback]
girls are much worse about stealing shit than guys and not giving them back
So fucking true. I've lost so many clothes over the years.
SPACE GHOST
Jun 7 2007, 06:23 PM
Well I'm sure with alot of you, you both can trade jeans and it'll be like you were wearing the pair you just had on.
I never give bitches my clothes.
Robert Hamburger
Jun 7 2007, 06:24 PM
thats because youre 15 and have no fucking clue what youre talking about
namernj
Jun 7 2007, 06:25 PM
my ex and i... when we broke up... we were nice enough to exchange our clothes back to eachother.
i gave her a lot of soccer/lacrosse shorts because, well...... easy access.
she gave them all back the week or so after we split
SPACE GHOST
Jun 7 2007, 06:26 PM
QUOTE(chuck taylor @ Jun 7 2007, 06:24 PM) [snapback]556266[/snapback]
thats because youre 15 and have no fucking clue what youre talking about
bitch please.
No but seriously, trickedthepigs, I think your sister might have a hoodie of mine. Sorry to bring this up but you're never on aim.
I had a couple of school soccer team sweatshirts. Now I think they still have them. Oh well
Robert Hamburger
Jun 7 2007, 06:29 PM
when its 8 in the morning and the bitch from last night is keeping you awake complaining that she doesnt want to walk back in that tight tank top and stilettos, you throw her whatever shirt/hoody is near you so she'll shut the fuck up, letting you to snooze until your 10am class.
SPACE GHOST
Jun 7 2007, 06:30 PM
QUOTE(chuck taylor @ Jun 7 2007, 06:29 PM) [snapback]556271[/snapback]
when its 8 in the morning and the bitch from last night is keeping you awake complaining that she doesnt want to walk back in that tight tank top and stilettos, you throw her whatever shirt/hoody is near you so she'll shut the fuck up, letting you to snooze until your 10am class.
Hopefully one day I'll experience this is in College.
Robert Hamburger
Jun 7 2007, 06:32 PM
its even worse in the winter time and they think that the head from the night before qualifies them for a free ride home
SPACE GHOST
Jun 7 2007, 06:36 PM
QUOTE(chuck taylor @ Jun 7 2007, 06:32 PM) [snapback]556276[/snapback]
its even worse in the winter time and they think that the head from the night before qualifies them for a free ride home
So you give her your heaviest clothing item and tell the bitch to start walking, right?
lambchopthis
Jun 7 2007, 06:40 PM
Yeah... I just wanted to say that your avatar is mesmerizing. Even more so than the one of the asian chick someone used to have on here.
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